My emotions recently have been much more stable. I dont know if its that I no longer have crazy pregnancy emotions, or that Im finally far enough removed from all of this that I can finally see the future.
My newest annoyance however, is totally unfounded I know, but bothers me none-the-less. I did NOT have a miscarriage. I dont know why it bothers me so much when people assume that I did. Its still a loss just the same, but is it that I had to make my own choice of what to do instead of my body doing it for me? Besides, once you are 3 months pregnant, you arent SUPPOSED to have miscarriages. Anyway, I'm annoyed.
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Hon, it still shits me to tears when people (I think trying to be socially polite because they refuse to use the 'a' word in public) say I had a m/c.
No, I didn't.
I had to choose, and it was really, REALLY sucky. It should be acknowledged, not glossed over.
xx
J
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